Its been an awesome experience I tell you, I was +1 few weeks back and I remember someone popped up the question.. Joy in your own little experience what will you say life has taught you in your past few years? I reluctantly smiled but that question stayed in my frontal lobe of cerebral cortex..
As if that wasn’t enough I know getting into a new year we all have goals ohh well, it was good getting into this new year and honestly I had no goal other than bettering myself and that has been the same goal since 2 years back but i know one major thing is that i TRUST MY JOURNEY..
2 decades plus and counting I know its defiantly not my doing and it keeps reminding me that there is an unaccomplished task that I alone can do ohh well that alone will make me do yanga and blush..
Getting down the older ages I will say I learnt
Never to let the vision of life scare me because all great things have a starting point and a story to it.
Never to let anyone’s insecurity interfere with how I view myself..
Honestly, fulfillment comes from having a life of balance and defining success in my own terms.
The funniest realization i embraced is that before I ask anyone for their opinion I’m always secure and validated in my skin first so I don’t get lost in the response I get.
Sometimes in trying to help people, I got cut in the process due to the persons brokenness then I realize I need to give people time to heal and change on their own terms.
I pleaded with myself seriously to temper my expectations because I don’t expect someone to walk when they haven’t crawled , people only give what they have not what I envision..
I did learn to stand for myself..
We learn at each given opportunity..
I’m Jessyca Joy and I trust my JOURNEY..